When Someone We Love Dies
The love we share with a departed one doesn’t die, it continues in a way we have yet to cultivate, and understand. Learning to cultivate a new way of connecting that is beyond the human limitations … takes time. I know it doesn’t hurt any less, it just hurts less often.
I went to a fund raiser for the “the weekend to end women’s cancers www.endcancer.ca/ ” which was in support of a dear friend who died 5 years ago of breast cancer. I miss her every day, and as I walked into the room, it was filled with her delightful, buoyant energy, so much so I kept looking over my shoulder to see if she was there. I know she was, just not in the form I was looking for.

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When Someone We Love Dies
That's so beautiful, Ruth. And so right, for lack of a better word. Much love.
When Someone We Love Dies
Well, I put off reading this one when I saw the title as I still feel a bit raw sometimes, if you know what I mean, even though it's been over 2 years since my husband passed away (only 8 months since Mum's passing, though). However, as always, I found something very comforting in your words that really spoke to me. It's the part about it not hurting any less, just less often. I have to admit that's true even though there is a part of me that wants to say it will never stop hurting, even less often, and I don't even want it to. I'm getting there, though, I really am. Thanks for your inspiring words, Ruth.
Cheers,
Lenora